Wednesday, October 8, 2008

9 years dream

Next month is the best month. Because "Hong Kong, We are coming!!"

it's been many years since i was graduated 1999 from University. Always wondering when i can bring my parents to oversea for vacation...look, it take 9 years to accomplish my dream. Perhaps is good for kick start, but i hope i keep on doing it.

Parents has been getting older and older...health wise also a big issue. They only can go places for sight seeing, need to watch out for food which low fat, low salt , low sugar. it's quite a shame for me where i have to wait until parents reach to such a condition then only can bring to so called "vacation".

I hope that the hong kong trip is just a started of journey to going around world with parents...can't bring them to see the whole world, but at least.....I could spend time with them, enjoy time with them.

Mama, I don't know how many countries that i could able to bring you over... but i promise i will try my best to make your life very happy and harmonyl. I love you , mom.

Sunday, February 24, 2008

Gua Tempurung Trip with friends..

23-Feb-2008(Saturday)

After many months of email discussion for my The 11th Friendshiptrip, this round we were going to day trip of Gua Tempurung.

This round we got 2 friends...my hubby and ming hoe were in.

We departed from Penang at 8AM. Had very nice dim sum and went all the way to Ipoh...

10.30AM we reached there, as Sew Moi and the rest and reached at the same timing :D.

we purchased RM22 grand tour package...started walking at 11.30 in the cave... saw many powerful natural scenes...very excited..

we also came to some spot that were very dangerous...climbed up and down...sometimes need to crawl in the water stream... Honey was warning me 'watch head ! watch head"...

after 3.5 hours..finally we came out from cave....we made it!! very tired...

Then we went to Ipoh to have the original Ipoh Old Town white coffee shop...have very nice local food. then the next amagine part was going to celebrate Sew Moi Birthday party...guess we had it at Wee kean's friends house. :P.

Sew Moi was very excited of received birthday present from every one of us...she really happy.

Lastly we had Nga Choy Gai then bye bye to all....

Although just a day trip...but we find it excited and happy..start to figuring what is the next trip already :D

Sunday, February 10, 2008

Jeff's First Family Trip

09-Feb-2008

Dalwin was asking me wanna join for family to Water Fall Yen Besar during chinese new year (3th day). That time i was still struggling wheather wanted to go bring Jia Jia to go or not. Because i was very worry on the cold water might cause Jia Jia get flu. But, i feel it's bad if purposely to absent for family trip. Eventually, i decided to go. Jeff was happy.

When we reached Yen was 2:30pm. That time Jia was sleeping. When he awake, he noticed he himself was in the jungle already. He felt weird. :D

When all adults started jumping into water, Jia also started to making noise want to jump too.

I brought him to play water, stone etc...he was so excited.

5pm ready to go back...he cried , refused to go back.

Dad in law cooked fried noodle, wai kheen make sandwich... was quite a interesting trip indeed.

Thursday, January 24, 2008

Wife's Time

I know Jeff like his job very much
I know Jeff want to perform well in his job
I know Jeff's hobby is to read book
I know Jeff wanted me be "House wife" that's why he works harder.

He don't know I want him to have more rest
He don't know I want him to spend some time to talk to me
He don't know I hate his Calculous Mathematic book
He don't know I just want to have some family time
He don't know when he sleeping i staring at him at ask myself "why you started not talking to me"

Honey, when you home, I hope I can cook something for you to eat.
Honey, when you home, I hope you can accompany me for a drama, hope we can laugh together, comment together but you were reading your calculous mathematic book again.
Honey, when you home, we have no time for pingpong or swimming because it was late nite already.

work , life and wife must be balancing....

p/s : but last nite you clean up the house ... I am very happy. :)

Thursday, December 27, 2007

Step 1 for my Power Puff House

Today still a free day for me.
Therefore i started to browse some banking website to look for the best personal package. Notice their offer are quite standard. Just that try to find one which is more convenient and flexible one.

I was thinking to borrow RM25,000 of the loan. If just a RM25K which will make my business successful as i was planning, then this will be the first 'loan' to make me rich.

I suddenly have very strong feeling that i will win this challenge. I want to achieve my goal and life. I do not want to waste anymore time to something i am not interested too.

After I do this business i know that i will be more busy than current life.
After I do this business i will have more control about my time
After I do this business i will have chance to take care of my bb and future bb.
After I do this business i will have more extra income approx RM13,000 month gross profit.

All of the reason state above will be my motivation to go towards my goal.

Wednesday, December 26, 2007

Family Pressure

After borned of Jing Jia, I feel I am very very closed to my family, espcially my mama. Our relationship is really good. But in the other hand, a 'hidden conflict' has been raised up by my sister-in-laws. In order to resolve the conflict, Big bro and I have been squeenzed and under certain pressure of make our family to reunion....

Recently my newphew had operation, so my sis in law wanted mom to take care of the wound. But her condition is NOT to bring Jia along. I had been trying hard to arrange, but i really can't on leave. This had been making big bro almost gone into crazy. Mom do not want to have Jia to pass to other people take care. aiii... so to make big confront, we insist to bring jia over too. At the same time we got papa to go there too....

Bad things really happened. She cried and said something which is she felt very sad. I understand her feeling, but I do not add more words bcos this will not help anything, but only added more 'anger'. She wanted me to bring mom back, but i didnt' do it,bcos i know she needs her, she just very worry that Jia will hurt her son.

After few hours, her mood seem ok already, i don't know why that was happened. She talked to me softly and nicely. When i went home, i somemore said 'Merry Christmas' to her, she smiled.

From this case, i learnt something. When someone angry with us, we listen. Maybe she just need people to listen. After listen already, she accept and open heart back to us. :D

Mom is right, we need her to accept Jia ... let her understand that mom also love other grandchildrent.

We really hope that our family conflict can be resolved faster, so that we really have a happy family back . :P

Tuesday, December 25, 2007

Cameron Trip @ 2007

This was my first family trip , sis family and my family + mama + Xin Ping and Tong Tong. 10 pax went up hill to Cameron Highlands.

The feeling of it is very happy , because first time of bringing mama to such a far place to visit. Plus with sister family too..i think mama also feel happy of it.

Mama like to prepare food for us to eat when gone up hill, she said eat outside very waste money...she prepared until midnite 3am. I was not very happy...because i want her has a pleasant time not tired time. She woke up at 5am to cook porridge...aiii...this grandma is too good.

At 8am we started the journey quietly because to make sure that JingJia will not make noisy at long journey. He woke up when we reached to Simpang Pulai..:( which we ready to go up hill...aiiyo...i so scared that he will make me pening. :D

very fast that we reached up there....a lot of cars that were jamming in the EQ and kea farm. People stopped by to buy veggie and fruits.

Cameron is nice pleasant place for family to stay...:P ...very nice weather...fresh air. We started to walk around at 4pm...but Jing Jia slept at 4:30pm we hold him for one hour time....very very tired..

Around 7pm we had a nice steamboat at Wu Yue Hua...kids werebz to walk around ... so Jeff and I rotated to take care of him.

After that we went back for rest and came out again to Pasar Malam. But unfortunately the pasar malam already closed. Mom managed bought 14 pack of veggie...she was happy to buy cheap and fresh veggie.

At nite time was quite nite mare where Pong Pong and Ya Ya continuasly to cry non stop until mid 3am. And Jia also cried after that....aiii..he was looking for yao-yao. where to find wor...

By next day, i cleaned all the stuff and check out at 11am. very hot weather when running down hill.. Mama was so sicked abt the pressure. Finally we stopped at Ipoh Jusco...had her some rice and brought her for shopping, she felt more comfortable.

Jeff was very nice to bring us to have '芽菜鸡’。。i told him that i was so missed it but i knew that he must be very tired. But still insist to bring here there. Thanks honey.

By 10pm we already reached back to penang. This was my first family trip with mama only. There will be next trip at Genting Highland very soon. I am not sure whether next time can get brothers to go or not... I hope i can do it.